What a day it was…

“It was everything I'd hoped for, and more.”

— Roina

“I was so excited when I saw her.”

— Patrick

Roina and Patrick’s Wedding

Roina with her beautiful son, Oska who walked his mum down the aisle.

She wrote this poem to read at the wedding:

From the first time I held you I knew you were a special one

The little prince, my darling Oska, my only son.

You have been there for me when there was no-one else, and when the chips were down.

And I sincerely hope I have helped you to find your way.

But when you ‘came out’ at 15 and told me you were gay

I said all of the silly things, overlooking the strength and courage of what you had to say.

But I am the proudest parent of the human you have become.

And I know in that sentiment, Patrick and I speak as one,

I’m here to say we are blessed to have a rainbow son, with all the gifts that brings today.

Thank you Oska, for being you, for being great, and for ‘giving mum away”.

Photos of the day.

Paul McGovern was the lead photographer on the day, however this site showcases photos taken by Ben Williams (Patrick’s dad), Jamie Rankin (Patrick’s brother-in-law) and others.

Wedding vows adapted from Thich Nhat Hanh’s, “The Four Mantras of True Presence”

“Darling I am here for you.

Darling I know you are there and I am truly happy.

Darling I know you suffer, that is why I am here for you.

Darling I suffer, I’m trying my best here, please help me.

These are the words that I will choose in times of joy, in times of fear, in times of sufferring and disgrace.

I speak them knowing in my heart of hearts that you are my soul,my friend, my love and my home, my place.

With this ring I thee wed. And I hold your hand to my heart for always.”